“Whatever you like.”

One of the most important skills you can develop for success in life is the ability to evaluate situations quickly and make definite decisions.Many people struggle with the process of decision making. Whether it is at home, or at work, it is easy to become paralyzed by the fear of making the ‘wrong’ decision.This fear often leads us to avoid making decisions altogether and we end up delegating our decision making to the people around us.For example, when someone asks, “What movie would you like to see?”You might reply with one of these tell-tale responses: “Oh, I don’t mind.”
“Whatever you like.”
“I’m not fussed.”
“Your choice.”
“Anything is fine.”
The problem with dismissive responses such as these is that they quickly develop into the habit of indecision. This in turn can become a major obstacle to achieving your most important goals in life.
“The doors we open and close each day decide the lives we live.”
- Flora Whittemore
The first step to becoming more decisive is to understand that making decisions is a skill and just like any other skill, it improves with practice.Instead of waiting until you are confronted with a major decision, the best way to exercise your ‘decision making muscle’ is to practice on the multitude of small decisions that you make each and every day.Whenever someone asks for your opinion on any subject, here’s what you should do:
(1) Avoid responding with a dismissive remark such as “I’m not fussed”

(2) Stop for a moment and give yourself time to think

(3) Become aware of what your ‘gut feeling’ is

(4) State your opinion confidently
So, the next time someone asks you “What movie would you like to see?” don’t leave the decision making up to others. Instead, stop for a moment, become aware of your ‘gut feeling’, and then state your opinion confidently. For example you might say something like “I feel like seeing a comedy…”As you practice this simple process, you will find it becomes easier to tune into your gut feelings and identify what YOU want instead of always being influenced by those around you.By exercising your ability to identify and express your opinion, you will gradually overcome the fear of making decisions.Eventually, when you are confronted by a more serious decision, you will be able to draw upon your well-practiced decision making skills to evaluate the situation and make a decision quickly and confidently.

Hockey India and World Cup at Delhi2010

Let me begin by asking you a simple question. And if you cannot answer even this one, you can ask it at your work place, in your classroom, at your chai ka adda, wherever. The question is: which is the premier national hockey tournament in our country? For simplicity, what is the hockey equivalent of cricket’s Ranji or Duleep Trophy? If most of you, your colleagues and friends fail that test, I can offer a lifeline: name any major domestic hockey tournament played in India. It’s only when you flunk that test too that you will appreciate why an eighth place for India in the Hockey World Cup is not such bad news for India which ruled the game for nearly five decades. You will also then understand why we need to celebrate not just our performance, but also the fact that this World Cup got played in India. Because, more than anything the sports ministry, the Indian Hockey Federation and even FIH, the hockey equivalent of ICC, have done to revive the game in India in the past two decades, more than even the heady afterglow of Chak De India, it is this World Cup that may signal the beginning of a second innings for hockey in India. Of course, a higher finish by the home team would have helped. A podium finish would have in fact been brilliant. But, now that you have seen some of the most brilliant hockey played in these two weeks, in fact for most Indian adults below 40 perhaps their first experience of watching the game at its highest level, you can see why flukes do not get you shock victories in hockey. Those of my generation, when hockey was still played in schools, would remember the coach’s favourite adage: hockey by practice, cricket by chance. It is a dangerous thing to say in a country where people can kill for cricket, but a “Miracle at Lord’s” (Kapil Dev’s team, 1983) kind of thing is impossible in hockey. There are many reasons why this is so, but the most important is that hockey, like football, is much more of a team game than cricket. Not one great Sachin-like innings, Imran-like bowling spell can close the match against the other side, even if it happens to be much better than you on paper. And, even if for a day, a great team switches off and lets a poor challenger win, the others will not let it go any further. In short, in hockey as in football, it is nearly impossible to defy form, in fact it is totally impossible to defy form over an entire tournament. In fact, that’s why this is the third World Cup final in a row between Germany and Australia. But check out where the 12 contenders in this Cup were ranked in the world before coming to New Delhi, and then check out the rankings in this tournament. You might in fact find one very pleasant surprise: India, ranked 14, finishing now at eighth. Number eight in a World Cup played at home sounds awful, but not quite so when you see it as a nearly hundred per cent improvement over your world ranking. whenever we went out to play, we expected nothing but a podium finish, and when our hapless teams failed that test, we rubbished them for bringing dishonour to our “national game”. The Pakistanis did a little bit better, helped along by some foreign coaches, even winning a World Cup in these decades of decline (1994). But just that same emotional, irrational weight of expectation, combined with total neglect and failure to understand the strides the rest of the world was making, has now brought their hockey to the bottom of a World Cup rankings table. It may be some consolation that India had got there much earlier (England, 1986).

So-called experts and enthusiasts, including former hockey stars in both countries, have spent three decades now finding alibis for their falling rankings. They point at the usual suspects: “white” nations who have allegedly changed the entire pattern and system of the game to suit “their own” style. Now the subcontinent is brilliant at inventing conspiracy theories. But even by that standard this is totally, totally untenable and self-defeating. In fact this has generated self-pity and self-inflicted damage which has played a greater role in destroying our hockey than any shenanigans of our respective officials. This has psyched two generations of our players into believing that the new rules and the choice of an artificial surface were grand conspiracies to dethrone them and because they do not suit the “Asian” style, we stand no chance before the “whites”, particularly the hard-hitting Europeans. We forget, meanwhile, that under the same new rules, South Korea has risen as a world power ranked much higher than us, and China is getting there. In fact it is Astroturf and the new rules that have made hockey such a wonderful game to watch, a fact to which several lakh people who came to watch the World Cup over two weeks would testify. Astroturf turned hockey into an all-weather game, so no rain breaks and, for the Europeans, no long winter breaks. It gives you true bounce, fast and consistent ball movement, both of which should help the Asian style of short-passing, ball-control hockey rather than hamper it. The changes in rules, abolition of off-side, sticks, turning and so on were carried out with the specific purpose of reducing referee whistles by more than a half, and with that it is now a much faster, enjoyable game, played by not just two countries in one neighbourhood but in a lot of the world, in fact in all continents. And then if you can get several thousand Delhiites to pay and watch it over a fortnight, or for Ten Sports to have such healthy ratings for its high quality live telecasts, even in a tournament where India finishes at eight, somebody must have done something right to bring back the beauty and joy of this great game. Of course, my argument would remain incomplete without acknowledging the foresight of Hero Honda which put so much money and emotion behind the game. SAIL and Sahara did their bit too, but if the Munjals of Hero see a future in hockey they must have spotted something there the rest of us didn’t. And who understands the market better than them? Check with Hero Honda’s competitors!

Manish Chandra Prabhakar - Google Search

Manish Chandra Prabhakar - Google Search

Sachin Tujhe SalaM !!

"Sachin - the greatest ever player ever - without any doubt… I salute Sachin... World's greatest sportsman. We can see him only rise. (He is an) inspiration to us all. He is the best."

"Whatever record is seen to be impossible to achieve, he makes it possible. That's all I can say. It seems as he's getting older, he is becoming more and more mature. No wonder Sir Donald Bradman saw himself in the way Sachin bats."

what is the definition of greatness !! we learn the definition of greatness from book or teachers or by the told of the people !! we listen since our child hood that what is the definition of any thing .we also learn that practical knowledge is better than theoratical knowledge. we belive in that thing which can see by our own eyes; here i m telling you the story that every one had seen on small screen live from gwalior stadium. what is this it is simply unbelivable no one can belive if they dnt seen that .even those people who r the witness they can simply defident to tell that is this the right thing that they r watching or ficticious like movie. but this is true , wonder beyond our imagination, amaging great no word to explain this in correctway because no word is for that !!sachin tussi great ho pajji.Sachin tujhe salam . i have seen most of the innings or hundred made by sachin since 96worldcup.i remember all that  when i compare any two we fail to explain or result !!because aal the pari played by sachin is the best pari or innings !!every inning have great importance. no one can compare all that.what about today , it just beyond or far far far away from all that inning played by any cricketer in world cricket.sachin the legand .we are seeing the greatman with our own eyes no need to read no need to listen anything about the greatman, just watch by own and think about that.here i can say that this is the best inning that any one played since the birth of cricket .
"It shows his mental and physical toughness. He's a player who does not throw away his wicket once he's set. He always places a huge price on his wicket.""I think if you ask Saeed Anwar, he would say he's happy that Tendulkar broke his record. The reason for his success is that he has a great respect for the game."


"He should aim for more. Maybe a Test innings of 450 or an ODI knock of 250. And then he himself wants to win next year's World Cup. There is a little boy in Tendulkar who wants to keep playing. That spirit keeps him going. It's absolutely incredible how he keeps going.
"Milestone man Sachin Tendulkar re-wrote the record books on Wednesday, hammering the first double century in the history of one-day cricket to add another feather to his well-adorned cap.

The capacity crowd at the Captain Roop Singh Stadium witnessed history on Wednesday as Tendulkar, statistically the greatest batsman the game has ever seen, pushed a Charl Langeveldt delivery through the off-side and ran a single to achieve a feat which no other cricketer has achieved.
One Day International cricket, since its 1971 inception, had to wait nearly four decades to see a batsman score 200. The previous best mark was shared by Zimbabwean Charles Coventry (194 not out) and Pakistan's Saeed Anwar (194). As the crowd erupted with unbridled joy, Tendulkar, tired but composed, took off his helmet, looked skyward, closed his eyes to offer a silent prayer. The crowd gave him a standing ovation as the entire stadium erupted in euphoria while his teammates were simply ecstatic as they clapped and hugged each other, basking in the glory of their senior teammates. Tendulkar batted like a man with a mission today and the South African bowlers simply had no clue where to bowl. Once he crossed the 150-mark, the crowd anticipated something special and Tendulkar did not let them down. It was yet another milestone for the man, who has some 30,000 international runs under his belt, including 93 centuries (47 in Tests and 46 in ODIs).

Manish Chandra Prabhakar - Google Search

Manish Chandra Prabhakar - Google Search

Creativity Can Make The Impossible Possible

Impossible is what we know that IMPOSSIBLE , it depends on you that what you think about..!!how you looks the thing..!!because creativity is seeing the same thing as everybody else, but thinking of somthing defferent. here everybody read the word impossible as it is!!but creative thinker read the same word with different meaning and Vision. means what Impossible is nothing but combined effect of word IM-POSSIBLE but this difference seen in creative mind and not by general mind .the Vision is clear!!so it is better that make ourself a creative learner and make this impossible into I M  POSSIBLE difference will be seen automatically...!!

"The Last Day Comes Before The First Day"

we have been told since we grew up. every time not even a teacher and parents but also by friend that first come always first and last came last. this might be true most of the time but can any body think over that could it be true that last come before first. yeah this time i m talking about..!! today we are saying goodbye to the year2009!!and welcome to the new and prosperous year ahead everybody thinks so ..!!that we are going to welcoming the new year2010 and hoping that this new year will fullfill all the dreams and help to achieve our goal and all the thing that we wanted !!we hope so!!really this is the right situation for saying that "The Last Day Comes Before The First Day" in between saying good bye and welcome , this time we also realise that whatever we achieve before or during this year will keep in mind and go ahead step bye step . i just wanted to add that.. definetely new year will bring the joy and happiness for all, but it is better to focus ourself on goal. Goal is something that we wanted to..!! goal varies from person to person and mind to mind that depend on how creative we are..!! creativity comes from beautiful minds. it can come from anywhere and from any part of the society. creativity has many dimensions such as invention discoveries and innovations. creativity is the ability to imagine or invent something new by combining ,changing reapplying existing ideas. it is an attitude to accept changes. willingless to play with ideas and possibilities. creativity is a process to work hard and countinually improve ideas and solutions by making gradual alterations..!! creative mind is seeing the same thing as everybody else but thinking of something different...!!there is no doubt that there is creativity in every mind but it calls for a concerted effort to ensure that it is expressed...!! All of us have to worked hard and do everything possible to make our behaviour to protect the right of every people or individual..!! if you aspire to great thing in life you need magnanimity..!! at last you have to evolved yourself and sape your life..!!

finaly wishing you all a very Happy and Prosperous New Year ahead!! also saying goodbye2009!!

अलविदा २००९ !! वेल्कोमे २०१०!!

आप सबो को नए साल की ढेरो शुभकामनाये !! नया साल मुबारक हो !!